They are the three little words that make all the difference in a working relationship: "I trust you."
Trust is a key aspect of leadership, which,
as I have written before, differs from management. Put simply, people are
required to follow a manager; they
choose to follow a leader.
Trust fuels the choice.

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Trust
is the expectation, in the face of risk, that the other person will do
the right thing for us. When we trust another person, we:
- Reduce our doubts,
- Let down our defenses,
- Invest our talents,
- Commit our time,
- Reveal our hopes and concerns,
- See possibilities and believe in them and
- Feel safer, more comfortable, knowing someone's "got our back."
So, how do we go about building trust as newsroom managers and aspiring leaders?
I like the trust model that Robert Bruce Shaw articulates in his book, "
Trust in the Balance." He says trust is built on:
- Achieving results,
- Acting with integrity and
- Demonstrating concern.
We trust people who know their
stuff and deliver consistent, quality work. We trust people who walk
their talk and have a true moral compass. We trust people who make us
feel we matter, not just as producers -- but as people.
The
trick is this: Leaders don't build trust by mastering only part of that
equation. They need to demonstrate all three elements of it: expertise,
ethics and empathy.
Journalism's managers have nonstop
opportunities to gain or lose the trust of their staffs. Because I see
reams of feedback on individual leaders
through my Poynter work, I have a great window into how trust is gained and lost in the newsroom.
Here, then, are my top 10 newsroom trust-builders -- and trust-busters:
1.) Expertise. My boss is a good journalist. I
can see it in our daily interactions. My boss doesn't waste time trying
to impress me with how good he used to be at my job before getting
promoted. Today he achieves by helping others, like me, succeed.
2.) Information. My
boss keeps me in the loop -- not just about things that directly affect
me, but about things that interest me, too. She tries to disseminate
news about changes -- bad or good -- as quickly as possible. I am
never surprised or embarrassed by being late to learn about something
of significance.
3.) Feedback. My boss lets me
know where I stand. I don't have to guess, or live with "if you
don't hear from me, assume you're doing a good job" as a way of
newsroom life. I get sincere, specific praise for good work and
constructive criticism when I miss the mark. My boss doesn't surprise
me at annual evaluation time with some complaint or concern that I
could have addressed -- if only I'd known about it.
4.) Giving credit/taking blame. My
boss lets her bosses know who really did the good work, and makes a
point to look out for the folks who too often are forgotten when praise
is handed out. She remembers whose original idea got a good project or
story off the ground, and credits that person. She steps up and
shoulders the blame when the team stumbles, and never lets good folks
take the fall for her when she messes up.
5.) Advocacy. My
boss goes to bat for my stories, projects, ideas, hopes, dreams and
concerns. He "manages up" to his bosses strategically about me. I
feel he acts as my agent, and is good at it.
6.) Letting go. If
I outgrow my current role, my boss helps me move to the next level,
even if it inconveniences her temporarily. She understands when it is
time for me to move on, in or out of the company, and doesn't stand in
the way of my success.
7.) Keeping confidences. If
I confide in my boss about an important issue, I believe he will honor
the confidence. I won't find out that the newsroom has learned
about my personal issues through a grapevine with roots in the boss's
office. (Note: Trustworthy bosses also help people understand when
they shouldn't be asked to keep a secret -- when managers are
duty-bound to act on information about activities that are illegal,
unethical, dishonest or dangerous.)
8.) Walk/talk. My
boss does the old "practice what you preach" routine. He's honest and
ethical. He doesn't hold himself to a lower standard than
others. He doesn't demonstrate bias for or against people or
ideas. He's the same person when his boss is around as when he's just
mixing with the team.
9.) Trash talk. My boss
doesn't disrespect my colleagues around me when they're not within
earshot. I don't have to wonder why he's bad-mouthing instead of
dealing with them. I don't have to wonder whether he trashes me
when I'm not around.
10.) Follow-up. My boss
doesn't forget me. She follows up on my requests, messages and
ideas. I don't feel as though after we talk, I'm off her radar
unless I come back and remind her. She stays on top of things.
If
they gave out "trust scores" based on these top 10 attributes, how
would you do? Why not take a trust-building step with your
staff? Show them the list -- and see what happens. Will they
trust you enough to tell you the truth?