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I think I've lost my filter for job interviews. While I used to be very nervous, now I've sort of become too relaxed, and I end up saying what I don't mean to say. On a job interview I was on recently, I told the recruiter that I was a good writer, but not a great writer. I realize now that it's sort of arrogant.
Do you have any advice on how to backtrack if you've said something stupid in an interview? I tried to make it sound like I was telling a joke, but to be honest I don't think he was too enamored with me after that.
Embarrassed and Otherwise Clueless
You seem to have demonstrated why butterflies can be helpful during an interview. They keep us from acting like turkeys.
Recovery should not be difficult. A follow-up note is always a good idea after an important interview. Use yours to explain what you really meant to say. No need to apologize, but the clarification -- if it demonstrates that you can be a great writer -- could help a lot.
And pack some butterflies for your next interview.
